Living day by day, week by week

Sunday, October 29, 2006

Another drunkard session

I am drunk again!

I just came back from another wedding dinner again and it's toastmasters yet again! The previous was TC's and this time's WB's. I haven't met him for quite a number of years since I took a break 2 years back to concentrate on my studies and now the next time I meet him is at his wedding!

Congratulations!

I had lots of fun, and I'm sure the other invitees from TWTMC also felt the same way too! There was CL, TM, KH, JM the club president, MH and SH, a guy slightly younger than me who left the club roughly around the same time I took a break last time. Gosh, time flies! He's just ORDed from Commandos and he's now a salesperson with Starhub.

Anyway we had a wonderful time, though the wedding dinner only served beer. We cracked lots of jokes and I gulped one glass of beer after another. Boy am I feeling high now!

I said a lot about my future plans with TM whilst on the car. I'm not sure whether it's a good move (I think it shouldn't be too bad...) and it felt nice to be talking about it. Just that I forgot Dale Canegie's policy of engaging in the other party by asking him about what he likes... argh~!

Kitto umakuyatte ikeru! It's another week of work!

Saturday, October 28, 2006

Jung Typology Test

Jung! I remembered darling MC passing the quiz to me during our undergraduate days and JM passed it to me just now. Revisiting the quiz brings back fond memories ... and I am an ENFJ!

Your Type is
ENFJ
ExtrovertedIntuitiveFeelingJudging
Strength of the preferences %
1256256

http://keirsey.com/personality/nfej.html
http://typelogic.com/enfj.html

http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes3.asp

Friday, October 27, 2006

Kinokuniya 20%!


Hmm... argh I've already grabbed tons of books during Border's massive sales earlier this week! I shouldn't spend anymore~!

I attended my first session of JLPT Preparation class at PYAESS school on Thursday evening. It's pretty straightforward, just doing papers so it's quite much of a misnomer. However they got me thinking hard about pursuing the Japanese language as a serious hobby as it has better pay off I think! :)

On the job front, nothing much so far. So now I'm basically starting to slowly tell everyone that I'll be leaving. It wasn't very exciting when PL, the HR manager, came up to me and tried to give me some advice. Oh well! I should look forward. Which means from now till I leave, I'm on a working holiday of sorts! :D

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

Books from Borders!

Yay!

Borders had a 30% promotions on full-priced books over the weekend!? G-A-W-D!

Without much hesitation I cut out my first coupon that appeared on Saturday's Straits Times and almost rushed down to Orchard to grab my book. The promotion's real clever, as they only allow 30% off only one book for each transaction. So to get 3 books at 30% off, one will have to queue 3 times. Although I only had a coupon (and a loooong reading list), I thought I'd better run down and get it before everything gets snatched up (so typically the kiasu Singaporean). However I met KH before going and he was keen to drop by too, so we decided to wait till Tuesday which was the Hari Raya public holiday and we'd grab 'em together.

So he had a coupon and I had one too. However to my surprise Monday came and the coupon appeared in the newspaper Today! Gosh, Today's the free small newspaper so I immediately thought of collecting as many coupons as I could! MDL was so cool and helped me in my quest by asking around the office (after all I am still pretty unsociable) and she got me a whopping 3 coupons. WOW~! I couldn't spot my usual lunch kaki YK around (he told me today he had lunch with his wife that day) so I took the big dive and sacrificed my lunch to grab books! I was really glad I went, 'cos within an hour I managed to queue 3 times (with 3 books, of course), something which I would definitely be unable to pull off if I had waited till yesterday when I bought my fourth book with KH.

So what are the books I've bought? Those I've mentioned earlier, namely:
  • The Game
  • Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
  • Cashflow Quadrant
  • How to Win Friends and Influence People
Quite heavy on self-help there. It was pretty embarrassing when I tried to find The Game, 'cos I couldn't find it in the self help section and had to queue up at the information counter. There was this guy standing in front of me asking for the same book as well! With a surprise the information guy ushered us... towards the sex section where the book is. Awfully embarrassing, but since I've eyed for the book for quite some time I took a fresh copy without much hesitation and walked away, leaving the other guy standing around and browsing...

So here we have it - 4 books?! Goodness! A total of around $50 bucks, yikes!

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Enough said

Extracted from http://solitairejoker.wordpress.com/2006/10/20/future-of-singapore:

The purpose of this thread is to highlight a response to Derek Wee’s commentary from a very bright RJC girl. The response is taken from her blog. She shares the same surname as Derek. Her academic achievements are impressive. She was from the elite gifted program at RGS who went on to top Singapore in the GCE ‘O’-levels in 2004. She also won the Prime Minister’s Book Prize for purportedly being effectively bilingual in Chinese and English (even though she often expresses her disdain for the Chinese language). And she is fluent in French. Her dad is one of the men-in-white. Naturally, hers is a highly affluent and privileged background. And without doubt too, hers is the perfect pedigree for joining the ranks of the highest echelons of the government.

Reproduced below are firstly, Ms Wee’s response to Derek Wee’s commentary and secondly, the original commentary by Derek Wee.

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From Ms Wee’s blog:

http://www.suchvividnothing.blogspot.com/

Thursday, October 19, 2006

mom’s friend sent her some blog post by some bleeding stupid 40-year old singaporean called derek wee (WHY do all the idiots have my surname why?!) whining about how singapore is such an insecure place, how old ppl (ie, 40 and above) fear for their jobs, how the pool of foreign “talent” (dismissively chucked between inverted commas) is really a tsunami that will consume us all (no actually he didn’t say that, he probably said Fouren Talern Bery Bad.), how the reason why no one wants kids is that they’re a liability in this world of fragile ricebowls, how the government really needs to save us from inevitable doom but they aren’t because they are stick-shoved-up-ass elites who have no idea how the world works, yadayadayadayada.

i am inclined - too much, perhaps - to dismiss such people as crackpots. stupid crackpots. the sadder class. too often singaporeans - both the neighborhood poor and the red-taloned socialites - kid themselves into believing that our society, like most others, is compartmentalized by breeding. ridiculous. we are a tyranny of the capable and the clever, and the only other class is the complement.

sad derek attracted more than 50 comments praising him for his poignant views, joining him in a chorus of complaints that climax at the accusation of lack of press freedom because his all-too-true views had been rejected by the straits times forum. while i tend to gripe about how we only have one functioning newspaper too, i think the main reason for its lack of publication was that his incensed diatribe was written in pathetic little scraps that passed off as sentences, with poor spelling and no grammar.

derek, derek, derek darling, how can you expect to have an iron ricebowl or a solid future if you cannot spell?

if you’re not good enough, life will kick you in the balls. that’s just how things go. there’s no point in lambasting the government for making our society one that is, i quote, “far too survival of fittest”. it’s the same everywhere. yes discrimination exists, and it is sad, but most of the time if people would prefer hiring other people over you, it’s because they’re better. it’s so sad when people like old derek lament the kind of world that singapore will be if we make it so uncertain. go be friggin communist, if uncertainty of success offends you so much - you will certainly be poor and miserable. unless you are an arm-twisting commie bully, which, given your whiny middle-class undereducated penchant, i doubt.

then again, it’s easy for me to say. my future isn’t certain but i guess right now it’s a lot brighter than most people’s. derek will read this and brand me as an 18-year old elite, one of the sinners who will inherit the country and run his stock to the gutter. go ahead. the world is about winners and losers. it’s only sad when people who could be winners are marginalised and oppressed. is dear derek starving? has dear derek been denied an education? has dear derek been forced into child prostitution? has dear derek had his clan massacred by the government?

i should think not. dear derek is one of many wretched, undermotivated, overassuming leeches in our country, and in this world. one of those who would prefer to be unemployed and wax lyrical about how his myriad talents are being abandoned for the foreigner’s, instead of earning a decent, stable living as a sales assistant. it’s not even about being a road sweeper. these shitbags don’t want anything without “manager” and a name card.

please, get out of my elite uncaring face.

posted at 12:08 PM

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Derek Wee’s original commentary which prompted Ms Wee’s response above.

By Derek Wee
Oct 12, 2006

When I read the Straits Times article (dated 24 Sep) on PM Lee calling the young to be committed and make a difference to Singapore, I have so much thought about the issue.

I am 35 years old, graduated from University and gainfully employed in a multinational company. But I cannot help but feel insecure over the future of Singapore. Lets face it, it’s not uncommon to hear, “when you are above 40, you are over the hill”.

The government has been stressing on re-training, skills upgrading and re-adapt. The fact is, no matter how well qualified or adaptable one is, once you hit the magical 40, employers will say, “you are simply too old”.

We have been focusing our resources and problem solving on low unskilled labour. But in reality, our managerial positions and skilled labour force are actually fast losing its competitiveness.

I travel around the region frequently for the past 10 years. It didn’t take me long to realise how far our neighbours have come over the past decade.

They have quality skilled workers, and are less expensive. When I work with them, their analytical skills are equally good, if not better than us.

It’s not new anymore. Taxi drivers are fast becoming “too early to retire, too old to work” segment of the society. I like to talk to taxi drivers whenever I am heading for the airport.

There was this driver. Eloquent and well read. He was an export manager for 12 years with an MNC. Retrenched at 40 years old. He had been searching for a job since his retrenchment.

Although he was willing to lower his pay expectations, employers were not willing to lower their prejudice. He was deemed too old. I wouldn’t be surprised if we have another No. 1; having the most highly educated taxi drivers in the world.

On PM Lee calling the young to be committed and make a difference. Look around us. How dedicated can we be to Singapore when we can visualise what’s in store for us after we turned 40? Then again, how committed are employers to us? But we can’t blame them. They have bottom lines & shareholders’ gain to answer to.

Onus is really on the government to revamp the society. A society that is not a pressure cooker. A society that does not mirror so perfectly, what survival of the fittest is.

But a society, where it’s people can be committed, do their best and not having to fear whether they will still wake up employed tomorrow. Sadly, Singapore does not offer such luxuries and security anymore.

On the issue of babies. The government encourages us to pro-create. The next generation is essential in sustaining our competitive edge. Then again, the current market condition is such that our future has become uncertain. There is no more joy in having babies anymore; they have become more of a liability. It’s really a chicken and egg issue.

Many of my peers, bright and well educated have packed up and left. It’s what MM Goh called “quitters”. It’s sad but true, Singapore no longer is a place where one can hope to work hard their lives and retire graciously. It’s really the push factor.

A future is something we sweat it out, build and call our own. Unfortunately, people like me, mid 30’s going on 40’s, staying put by choice or otherwise, we can’t help but feel what lies ahead is really a gamble.

To PM Lee and the Ministers, we are on a different platform. Until you truly understand our insecurity, the future of Singapore to me remains a question mark.

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Her reply to a guy who posted the entire thing in full on his blog:

i apologise if i have distressed you with my tendency to rant. while i will not dispute some of the points you make in response to what i have written, i would like to bring to your attention the fact that the post in question was never meant to be a cogent response to the specific points raised in derek wee’s article. it is, quite obviously, a rant in the heat of the moment. in addition, i don’t believe that my blog has the wide readership of derek wee’s, or even your own, and my intention was more to vent my own frustrations than public denouncement.i’d also like to clarify my use of the word “elite”. while i understand how misinterpretation may have arose, i intended to use it in irony, as a label that people assume i enjoy, and not one that i take particular pleasure in.finally, i admit that i was harsher than i should have been, although the the crux of my belief in self-improvement and self-determination has not changed. once again, i apologise if my words have unintentionally offended you - i was under the rather naive impression that nobody reads my blog :)

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Saturday, October 21, 2006

A dilemma

I've said it but then..

I flipped the classifieds in the Straits Times just now and saw a number of job offers that are related to what I am currently doing after all. It suddenly sank in that what AGL said about me being in the field of marketing communications has been true after all. Reading at the job descriptions, the other common buzzword that she preaches everytime I consult her is 'branding', and such a word is not lost in the advertisements as well. However the positions I saw were more in the managerial level, the minimum with at least 4 years of experience.

So what do they really do? Similar to what I am doing actually, which is the the management of collaterals such as brochures, reports or other material that is released by the company. However one other point is that their common minimal level of qualification is a degree in mass communications, business or arts.

Am I foolhardy to leave? I feel so, but on the other hand I think I will be doing similar things in RP as well especially if I were to be tasked with the organizing committee for their annual symposium and such. However, I'm not sure if that is relevant in the corporate world as it is after all in an academic setting where society sees a division between that and the corporate.

Nevertheless, what's done is done. Time to embrace the future! :)

Kitto umakuyatte ikeru.

* I hate making decisions

Friday, October 20, 2006

A week in review: Office, Half day leave on RP visit, Fire evacuation

Much happened this week and I am quite caught.

On Wednesday the company had an exercise. NS guys will furrow their eyebrows at this stage and go "exercise"? Yeah, absolutely right! So SAF. I was a runner just like my good old days in NS and was in charge of ensuring that faxes from and to the organizing group (an external party) were delivered with minimal hiccups. Which is quite simple, really. Which makes me wonder why I struggled through NUS if all I do is this.


Here's a look from my desk to the glass windows. Not exactly very pretty, but I'll love to go to NY one day and see how it looks like in one of those Wall Street buildings. Will it be just as exciting and motivating to see fellow CBDians burying their heads deep in papers?


Fax machine and printer.


I had lunch with KH yesterday at Golden Shoe and I finally tried out this Indian stall in Golden Shoe level 2 that persistently has a queue! (though slightly shorter than the nasi lemak ones further down which are quite famous). It's pretty nice I think, and not too much starch for my liking although it's still unhealthy all the same.


I took 1/2 day leave on Thursday to drop by RP for a social visit as discussed with my future boss. I guess I came at the wrong time, as they had a long meeting that took their lunchtime and by the time they came out they were a little under the weather and most of my future colleagues were already off to perform their facilitations. Anyway I got to see their interesting struture, where instead of having all staff housed under one physical environment, they 'outsource' their staff to pods or staff offices where each pod consists of academic staff from various faculties. The rationale behind it is to motivate staff to interact and come up with interesting cross-disciplinary ideas, which sounds great by me. And they are indeed paperless! While having lunch there, I see RP staff lugging their laptops all over the place as if it's their lifeline (which is, really, cos they stay in touch with their home departments through instant messaging too). I think it's really quite a revolutionary way of working and before one shrugs it off as another version of Blackberry, I think it's quite different as the impression I got was that they are really fully utilizing the benefits of what wireless technology can bring to bridge distances, rather than the Blackberry which is more like a beefed up communications device that still maintains its traditional invasive perception of blurring the boundary between work and private life. That's what I feel, which is very interesting indeed coming from a cultural viewpoint.


On Friday we had fire drill! It''s conducted twice a year and I guess that explained why there was this huge gathering of people at the Raffles Place open area yesterday afternoon. We had to walk down 22 stories of stairs, and I shudder to imagine how people at the Tower Club (level 65) came down. I went round and round and reached the bottom with a slight headache from all that merry-go-rounding. We had complimentary packet drinks (again, as per usual from my colleague BK who has attended 5x2=10 sessions). Not a bad way of keeping fit yeah?

Before I left I told AGL (who came back after all when I thought she had left office without me) that the die is cast. Although I still have my doubts but .. oh well. Nothing's absolute in life! Enjoy the journey!

;)

Thursday, October 19, 2006

Smooth Jazz! - I Want!

Special EFX - Awakening
http://music.hooper.com/artists/chieli_minucci/masterpiece.html
http://www.amazon.com/Masterpiece-Special-EFX/dp/B00000IIRS

Brian Simpson - Saturday Cool
http://www.amazon.com/Its-All-Good-Brian-Simpson/dp/B0009X75T2

Brian Simpson - Closer Still
http://www.amazon.com/Closer-Still-Brian-Simpson/dp/B000005OVL/sr=1-2/qid=1161270419/ref=sr_1_2/102-6926961-6419360?ie=UTF8&s=music

Richard Smith - Sing a Song, Whatz Up
http://www.cduniverse.com/search/xx/music/pid/6368547/a/Soulidified.htm

Soundscape UK - Uptown Groove

Monday, October 16, 2006

Nights in Rodanthe, At First Sight by Nicholas Sparks

Wonderful.

http://www.nicholassparks.com/

Sunday, October 15, 2006

MR's 18th Birthday - Precious Moments

Today's my sister's birthday! Happy 18th birthday!




Recently MDL and I were oogling in office over the latest series of Precious Moments figurines that are Disney-themed and can only be bought in Disneyland (GOSH!). I've always had a fascination towards Precious Moments but never bought any as they're awfully expensive! However I was at Raffles City in the afternoon and oh my gosh, they're open for membership! For an annual $60 bucks, the member gets one notebook, one tin box and get this - one figurine that will usually cost easily close to a hundred! Naturally I grabbed it - the perfect present! Wow!

Catching up on Reading

I've just signed up for a Kinokuniya Priviledge card and can't wait for the next 20%-storewide day as I'll love to get my hands on the following:

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
http://www.amazon.com/Are-Mars-Women-Venus-Understanding/dp/0060574216/sr=8-1/qid=1160844412/ref=pd_bbs_1/102-6926961-6419360?ie=UTF8

Fast Food Nation
http://www.amazon.com/Fast-Food-Nation-Dark-All-American/dp/0060938455/sr=1-1/qid=1160844538/ref=pd_bbs_1/102-6926961-6419360?ie=UTF8&s=books

Mars and Venus on a Date
http://www.amazon.com/Mars-Venus-Date-Navigating-Relationship/dp/006093221X/sr=1-1/qid=1160844569/ref=sr_1_1/102-6926961-6419360?ie=UTF8&s=books

The Game
http://www.amazon.com/Game-Undercover-Society-Pick-Up-Artists/dp/1841957518/sr=8-2/qid=1160887101/ref=pd_bbs_2/102-6926961-6419360?ie=UTF8&s=books

Prozac Nation
http://www.amazon.com/Prozac-Nation-Elizabeth-Wurtzel/dp/1573225126/sr=1-1/qid=1160887325/ref=pd_bbs_1/102-6926961-6419360?ie=UTF8&s=books

One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
http://www.amazon.com/One-Flew-Over-Cuckoos-Nest/dp/0140236015/sr=8-2/qid=1160887521/ref=sr_1_2/102-6926961-6419360?ie=UTF8&s=books

And I am hunting for my "Rich Dad, Poor Dad"! Where did it go??? Or I'll have to get a fresh copy sobsob!


* Books not really high on the priority list

Just Friends
http://www.amazon.com/Just-Friends-Robyn-Sisman/dp/034544227X/sr=1-1/qid=1160887187/ref=sr_1_1/102-6926961-6419360?ie=UTF8&s=books


Flashbacks of NUS

I was hunting for some old files that I have backed up onto CDs during my undergraduate days in NUS and came across the following pictures. Brings back fond memories, doesn't it?



These pictures were taking during Japanese ... 2 I think! It was Tomiko sensei and this was one of the tutorial classrooms. Naughty BN (not in picture) was always making fun of me and my emotional fantasies... grr. The top picture showed me trying out Japanese tea that was brewed by Tomiko-sensei on our last class together.






Ah, and these are a series of photographs I took in year 2 when the girls were graduating. Sigh, and it was really in the blink of an eye that I had my turn to don the gown and the motar board just a few months back! :)

Friday, October 13, 2006

Deepavali

Let me tell the whole world something: I'm drunk again! I just came back from the company's Deepavali feast-cum-celebration and spent a very long and fun 2 hours drinking red wine with the lovely ladies from Corporate Services. That includes the office administration, finance and HR. A little edgy that I'm the only eligible male bachelor amongst the 4 of them, but it was fun nevertheless. It allowed me to see another part of the company which I have never seen before, partially due to the woefully small size of the Communications department. My boss didn't join in, and I hope my participation tonight does not raise any alarms on her.

Anyway onto the real meat. This week was pretty lovely! On Monday, YK and I had our usual lunch at Golden Shoe and came across this Streettracks roadshow regarding the gold stock exchange in Singapore. They had a competition where men and women compete amongst themselves to see who is the person who can hold that 1/8 of an ounce of gold bar the longest. The ladies could clasp their arms to the sides of their bodies like a hen for support; the guys had to hold it with arms outstretched perpenticular to the ground! Tough!


They also had this immobile human mannequin on display, and I can't help bu wonder if the gold bar they are holding is real as it will be awfully heavy!

They also gave out pens that are plated in gold colour which YK and I happily took one each. We also joined another queue for 2 tissue packs, so kiasu! It was really my idea and not his, oh well!

That was Monday. On Tuesdaywe saw this tent in the middle area again, and according to YK it's Yong Mei. Well I'm not sure and I dont really bother 'cos I'm not a fan but nevertheless they're here for propensity's sake.

Finally, today we celebrated Deepavali! It was, according to HR an indian colleague, north indian food and it was heavy stuff like rice and noodles instead of finger food which would have made an excellent tea spread.

Greedy SR and PP trying to stretch for a napkin.

ZG, our outgoing Chief Finance Officer, YS and HR from IT.
I was a little high from a can of Heineken beer (gosh, so lousy!). I became courageous and whipped out my phone to snap some pictures. Here is me with JM, my friend who introduced me in to the company and subsequently my present position.

That's me and JL from Corporate Services. Funky girl this one.

HR once again and LL from HY behind him.

Auntie AN, our office cleaner, and me.

Ah and that's me and MDL, the CEO PA.


These are the arrow keys on my keyboard!

Shh, a secret picture of MDL from my desk.


Cute Dale, a handphone pouch from my siblings for my birthday, trying to drink a sip of water.

I'm quite drunk so I'll stop here. Looking forward to a lovely weekend!

Monday, October 09, 2006

Nicholas Sparks - True Believer, The Wedding

I was so lucky the other day when I found Nicholas Sparks's books in Tampines library. Ohh some romance~! ;) I rushed "True Believer" this weekend so as to exchange it with my sister who has just finished "The Wedding", and came across the following dialogue on page 155:
Lexie laughed. "It doesn't surprise me. She's... well, she's Rachel. She and I were best friends growing up, and I still think of her as a sister of sorts. I suppose I always will. but after I went off to college and New York... well, it wasn't the same after I got back. It just changed, for lack of a better word. Don't get me wrong--she's a sweet girl and she's a lot of fun to spend time with and she hasn't got a mean bone in her body, but..."

She trailed off. Jeremy looked at her closely.

"You see the world differently these days?" he suggested.

She sighed. "Yeah, I suppose that's it."

"I think it happens to everyone as they grow up," Jeremy responded. "You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. And so you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on. It's perfectly normal."

"I know. But in a town this size, it's a little harder to do. There are only so many people in their thirties here, and even fewer who are still single. It's kind of a small world down here."
That brief exchange got me caught in how I have treated my friendships for the past few years. Indeed, I have gradually realised that I do have a voice which I should articulate, though that has caused some friendships to become restrained. However I think that there's an innate element of friendship that does not go away, but rather it depends on how both parties seek to channel it towards a common purpose.

What do you think?

Saturday, October 07, 2006

Shots along the Singapore River









Checking Account

I just signed up for a checking account with UOB which sounds pretty good so far - as long as you manage a monthly ledger account balance of $3000, you get to sign cheques for no extra cost! However there's no interest accrued (well it is a checking account after all) so I'll do some taichi and get the existing POSB savings account to be an actual savings place and grab a UOB credit card! Does anyone have any better suggestion? Kindly share!

I guess I'll work on budgeting in the short term from now, and look at how to grow money faster other than conventional banks...

Hmm!

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

Vivo City Advert




Tuesday, October 03, 2006

MDL & Mooncakes Fiesta!















Sunday, October 01, 2006

Singtel-UOB VISA Platinum Card

Singtel-UOB VISA Platinum Card
http://www.uob.com.sg/pages/personal/cards/credit/singtelvisa.html

Sounds cool!

Freakonomics, The Game, Hitchhikers's Guide to the Galaxy, Memoirs of a Geisha

I'm suddenly going on a book-buying and reading spree these days, finally having the time in the world to do some entertainment reading after so many years of work-related reading. While I'm not going to post a book review anytime soon, I guess I am pretty disappointed at Freakonomics and can't wait to start on the rest.